Safe Online Dating for Black Women (& women in General Too!)
You are just about to meet this black stud you have been chatting with online and you are SO excited! Don't let your excitement make you forget that the MOST important thing you can do is think safe!
1. Set arrangements to meet up in a public place for your 1st date. Never give out your home address.(OK Maybe when you're married). Kidding aside, just because a hot black guy seems sweet while chatting online, does not mean you should start trusting him enough to give out your home address. That is not safe! Think First..
2. For safety's sake, meet where there will be other people around. You may also want to consider going out with a group of people, or a double date.
3. Never give your home phone # out. It's alright to give a cell phone number, but your home phone can easily be used online with a Reverse Phone Number search to find out your address. .
4. Avoid alcohol on the 1st date. We all know that when we've had a few drinks, we get a little "looser" than we really want to and that can be a Big mistake. If this is Mr. Right, you may well have ruined it by getting drunk and going further with a stranger than you know you should. If this is Mr. Wrong, You have lost good judgement. Thats unsafe.
5. LISTEN TO YOUR GUT Instinct! If something about this man makes you uneasy, nervous, or you just feel something is not right, then leave. Do this in a nice way, but be safe rather than sorry.
6. Always drive yourself to this first meeting or two. Don't allow him to pick you up because if you do, you may very well be putting yourself in a dangerous situation. It's just not worth the risk. If he is a good man, he will understand!
7. Never make assumptions about someone you are getting together with for the first time, no matter how long you have been chatting online or on the phone. Don't do it! You don't know this guy yet and the risk just is not worth it.
8. Wait until your 2nd or even 3rd date before you disclose certain information. Keep your mind open and see if you get any bad vibes about the black guy 1st.
9. Make sure you always let someone know where you are going to meet your date at, Inform them what time you are expecting to be home, even have them call and check on you during your date and you can have some code word ready to let your friend know if things are going good or bad. .
10. Don't let your heart overrule your mind. Keep your wits about you. Keep your cell phone turned on and ready to use at a moments notice should things take a turn for the worse. Safety first!
Remember, dating should be fun and exciting. You can keep it that way even while using caution and keeping yourself safe. There is no need to feel you have to be "cool" and do whatever it is that this guy wants you to do. Remember, if he is the ONE, he won't mind waiting until you are comfortable enough to let him know more about you. He'll respect you for it and more importantly, you'll respect yourself.
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