7 Top Things That Black Women Want in Their Black Men during the initial Black Dating Phases.

There is a saying that "you wont get a 2nd chance to make a great 1st impression." Hence, it is crucial to be prepared to make a good impression on each black date you go on. Here are 7 tips for black men on black dating success and making a "Big Impression".

1. Bath or Shower Regularly
One of the worst things you can do when going out on a date (especially if it is your 1st date) is to turn up unshaven, looking dirty and smelling. Black Women are genearlly the cleaner of the sexes and will partly judge you on how clean you are. Remember Cleanliness is next to sexyness. Bad breath and body odor are an instant turn off and black girls will assume that this is how you are most of the time even if you are just having a bad day. She won’t be able to see beyond your appearance.

2. Get There on Time
Don’t turn up late. Turning up late sends out bad impressions. She may think she's been stood up, but after arriving late her opinion will change. Is he unreliable? Is he caring enough about her to be on time. Five minutes early is even better. Any earlier, and you might catch her adjusting her makeup or still getting ready. Five minutes early is the earliest you should arrive.

3. Give black women a Thoughtful Gift
A woman feels great when the man she is with gives her a nice gift. Know a few things about your perfect black woman before a first date. Maybe that came from phone conversations, emails, etc. Take what you know and buy her an appropriate date gift. For example, let's say that the woman really likes dancing. Get her a dance video and a rose. For an all purpose generic thoughtful gift, buy a chocolate rose. That's always nice without being overboard.

4. Make Sure To Compliment Your Ebony Girl.
The first thing you might say to her is.. You look Great Girl! Do this before you even ask how she is. Keep up the comments throughout your date, but do not go over board (3 for the night should be more than enough). A black woman loves to be complimented, to feel pretty and to think that you are attracted to her. More sincere = the bigger impact it will have.

5. Listen to Her and Ask relevant Questions
Nobody wants to spend the whole night listening to someone talk about themselves. Get to know each other. Ask her questions, but more crucial, listen to what she has to say. A black woman is attracted to a black man who is genuinely interested in hearing what she has to say. Spend a lot more time asking her questions and letting her talk rather than talking only of yourself. This is crucial in the black online dating or black singles game.

6. About The Goodnight Kiss
Some black single women may prefer not to kiss after an initial date, while other black girls may be pissed if the black guy doesn't even try. There is no easy simple answer to this question. Body language and the chemistry during the night is crucial in the decision you make. If it feels on, then by all means make the move. If it doesn't feel right then a friendly hug may be more appropriate.

7. And Always Practice Safe Sex. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Safe_sex Its simple, Plus, You and Your Partners Life Will Thank You For It! In 2010 Responsibility Is IN!

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