How To Really Pick Up Black Girls At On Online Black Matchmaker Site

Picking Up Hot Black Girls

Hi, Black Guys and Black girls,

Thanks for the intro Mathilda.
BTW Mathilda. U Have My attention too. Black Cutie ;-)

Anyways, I think Black Friend Finder mainly Brought me on to help out the black ladies in our BFF fanclub but this week I'm Gonna start with the black males 1st. I'll be honest. I'm a black woman that gets hit on a lot. I see the good bad and the ugly.

So Here Goes... some of you black males need to step up your game. Last Week I was approached in my black friend finder profile with "Hey Ebony, Maybe we could go to the gym or sumthin sumthin cause Your the kind of Shape I'd like to get into. Know what I'm sayin Black Booty Judy. Holla Back , Phat Booty Mike"

Oh My My.. Cute.
OK I know A lot of black dudes are looking for ebony sex (no pun intended) Yes.
But Is this sort of intro Effective? With Me... NO!!!
You really all need to listen to what Mathilda says in here in the BFF Blog each week.

Otherwise You aint getting this ebony booty ... or probably any other sexy black women .

Sincere works over all other BS. In Fact I'm gonna give you a black boys a huge dating tip.
# 1 sign up for Black Friend Finder Its FREE To Signup.
# 2 Go Here and Get A Crash Course on How to email womens profiles and be effective in 3 days or less.

Picking up black women the right way is not rocket science.

You just need to do it in a way the black models or hot black girls accept and love.

I'm not kidding, if you do just these 2 things and follow them like a recipe you will have more black dates, black dating, black sex, or whatever it your black online dating hearts desire.

I'm gonna tell you a secret right now. & I promise to owe Mathilda 1 kiss on the his cute black cheeks for telling u this.
(Cause He might be mad for me telling you about one of his secrets to success)

He did step 2 above and it took his game to another level.
In fact, its how he met me. Whether you are looking for african sex or just learning how to kiss it will help you.

Many of the tips he gives you here are derived step 2 above.

& If You're a hot black women and you want to give someone a nudge how to better approach you and be successful, then send them here and tell them to do the two steps above. (Make sure to give them your black friend finder profile address so they can follow up with you)

This Stuff Works!! Pickup More Hot Women Starting Now!

Until Next Time,
Get In & Get Busy Dating
http://www.Black-Friend-Finder.com (Over 20 Million Black Singles)
Ebony Simpson (Black Online Dating Expert)
As Always, Practice Safe Sex
(Cause Having Kids Or STDS Is Expensive!)

Here's a list of the top 12 search terms people are using to find us this week.
1. black love
2. find love
3. date site
4. find black love
5. black date site
6. black mature
7. black guy
8. black meet or meet black
9. black people
10. black woman white man
11. black female
12. black on black dating

honorable mention(#13) - fat black

Hey Wazzup Yall...
Just an FYI Update of note.
We've got big changes coming up in the next month.
I have added a co writer for the www.black-friend-finder.com blog
She is co-owner of Black-Friend-Finder.com and a good friend of mine.
Ms. Ebony Simpson (yes black guys - she's single on BFF and looking - But remember I saw her first ;-)

BS'ing aside. She Knows her stuff when it comes to black online dating and black love in general.


We brought her on for 2 reasons.

#1. Shes Hot!!! & Smart!!

and

#2 We Took a look at the black-friend-finder.com search logs and saw that folks are finding us with these types of keywords (see list below)

I wanted to share with you and thought you brothers and sisters would find this real..

Can You tell which searches where done by black brothers and which were done by black sisters
(For answers see parenthesis)

blacks (Both Sexes Search for this)
young black (MoSTLY Black Males Search For this)
find love (Black Females)
black female (Black Males)
black male (Black Females)
fat black (Black Males)
black body (Black Males)
black boy (Black Females)
black ladies (Black Males)
black models (Black Males)
love dating (Black Females)
looking for love (Black Females)
meet girls (Black Males)
black single (Both)
beautiful black women (Black Males)
black male models (Black Females)
black mature (Black Males)
hot black girls (Duh... Black Males)
ethiopian girls (Black Males)
ebonysex (Black Males)
big black women (Black Males)
ghetto girls (Black Males)
hot black (Black Males)
fat black women (Yes Some Black Males Like Thick Girls Best )
black guy (Black Females)
matchmaker (Black Females)
big black girls (Black Males)
fat girls (Black Males)
blackpussy (Duh.. I dunno maybe Black Males)
black boobs (ditto)
big girls (Black Males)
big boobies (Black Males)
hot black girls (Black Males)
big women (Black Males)
date online (Black Females)
black ebony (Both Sexes Search For This Term)
thick girls (Black Males)
beautiful black women (Black Males)
jamaican girl (Black Males)
big black women (Black Males)
hot black (Black Males)
black mama (Black Males)
ghetto girls (Black Males)
big black girls (Black Males)
fat black (Black Males)
black moms (Black Males)
blackgirl (Black Males)
beautiful african women (Black Males)
hairy black girls (I'll let you guess LOL)
black women white man (White Males) (FunnyORDie.com Video anyone) LOL
pretty black girls (Black Males)
black girlfriend (Black Males)
cute black girls (Black Males)
huge girls (Black Males)
black girl white guy (Black Females)
black girls rock (Mostly Black Males)
sistas (Black Males)
big black mamas (Black Males)

So you can see its slighty slanted. More males search terms in that list, but definitely bigger volume keyword searches for the black women keywords. In other words black girls search for less keywords, but they all search for certain keywords so the keywords have bigger volume. Kind of like most black women pretty much all use the same search terms.
Interesting huh.

Anyways. Heres the Bottom Line..
After all was researched on the keywords you folks are using to find us, we realized B.F.F. needed a seperate black viewpoint.

That is, from the black ladies perspective.
So We're gonna be splitting up the dutys around here.
I'm gonna give the black guys expert tips on how to pick up the black ladies the right way.
& Ebony is gonna give the black ladies dating tips on how to pick up and flirt with the black boys they like.

& Everybody Black Meet in the Middle.. So To Speak. Get It?

Stay Tuned. Lots More Black Love & Black Passion Coming Your Way.

Get In & Get Busy
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Whenever guys who are not black ask me, “What’s it like to date a black girl?” I respond by joking, “I wouldn’t know. I’ve never dated one. As in, I always date black women not girls) Kidding aside, I always call Black Girls "Black Women" because they are all that and then some, at least in my book.

And for a while now, I’ve promised you guys a “How to Pick Up Hot Black Women” post or something similar. Right. I thought about it last August but, WTH, stuff happens in the days between my blog posts. So, when I got down to writing things the next evening, I got sidetracked again, and wrote about I don't remember what. Anyways I'm back on track, finally, the waiting is done: a list of Do This and DON'T Do This are below. Here we go Hang On..

5 Tips for Picking Up; Black Babes, Black Hotties, Black Women or Finding Black Love in general. Whatever Ya want to call it,
Meet Black

Here We Go:

1. Make it stupid simple. If you’ve never dated a hot black girl and you’d like to ask someone hot out, how bout something like: “Hey, Girl are you free on Friday? Maybe we could be grab coffee or drinks or something and get to know eachother better?” Yes, my brothas, it’s that simple. So simple it works probably 70% of the time. If you still need help, Stay tuned to the black friend finder blog Because we are gonna keep coming back to this theme. Over and Over till you got so many black dates lined up you dont return my calls anymore. :(
Learn How to Ask a Black Woman Out on A Date.

2. DO NOT go into overkill. Telling off endorsements like “I’ve always worshiped black women” or “Black girls have tons more flava” or "I almost made Pro NBA status" will only make you mostly seem like a jerk. Side note, Also, Never ever go out in a spontaneous freestyle rap to prove how “hip and down” you are. [OK Maybe if you're real good. But that's a BIG if.]
( 50cent could get a way wit it. But 85% of others. NO! No! LOL )

3. Be honest about yourself. When the subject comes up, Is their anything wrong with saying, “I never been on a real date with a black hottie before because... ” Most Your dates will respect you're being honest. By the way, on a side bar, as a rule don’t lie with women in general. (You don't always tell them everything either) But generally don't lie. This single one tip has really helped me with the black booty judys. No one likes to be led on. So, if you really want to DATE a hot black girl but you’d just like to have black sex, there are plenty of places and opportunities to do that. Place a Craigslist add. sign up For FREE at www.black-friend-finder.com. Look into other black communities. But, be honest about your intentions.

Believe Me, there are plenty of black girls out there that have the same intentions as you.
;-)

But they want to get to know a little about you initially.

4. Make sure to have an open head. People are very unique and mostly cool and fly creatures. Everybody comes from alternate worlds & ethnicitys, classes, educations, spirituality (or not) and locations. And, Remember, we learned different things in life. So, we each have very unique thoughts about how things work. If You are dating someone who has a background that's unlike your own, make sure to study up against ideas that maybe will be different to your own ideas. One persons “right” attitude is not always the best way to think. Try seeing things from "her view" sometimes. Honestly, Women Love This. Plus, besides you might learn something new.
FYI - This is why Opposites attract!!!

5. Treat your dates like a DATE. Huh, Oh Ya? Generally, I think most people want to be cherished, loved, cared for, desired, etc. for who they are. Black Women want you to respect them, and be interested in them as a person too.

So spend some quality time getting to know her. Pretend like it’s a, you know, DATE.

Then she most likely will give something up in return... which all us guys like, and quite honestly most girls love too.. (they just don't admit it)
;-)

Remember to Practice Safe Sex and Get In & Get Busy Dating!
Mathilda Howard
Owner/Ceo
www.black-friend-finder.com

Top 10 Best Black / Ebony Dating Tips - Safe Online Dating for Black Women

Safe Online Dating for Black Women (& women in General Too!)

You are just about to meet this black stud you have been chatting with online and you are SO excited! Don't let your excitement make you forget that the MOST important thing you can do is think safe!

1. Set arrangements to meet up in a public place for your 1st date. Never give out your home address.(OK Maybe when you're married). Kidding aside, just because a hot black guy seems sweet while chatting online, does not mean you should start trusting him enough to give out your home address. That is not safe! Think First..

2. For safety's sake, meet where there will be other people around. You may also want to consider going out with a group of people, or a double date.

3. Never give your home phone # out. It's alright to give a cell phone number, but your home phone can easily be used online with a Reverse Phone Number search to find out your address. .

4. Avoid alcohol on the 1st date. We all know that when we've had a few drinks, we get a little "looser" than we really want to and that can be a Big mistake. If this is Mr. Right, you may well have ruined it by getting drunk and going further with a stranger than you know you should. If this is Mr. Wrong, You have lost good judgement. Thats unsafe.

5. LISTEN TO YOUR GUT Instinct! If something about this man makes you uneasy, nervous, or you just feel something is not right, then leave. Do this in a nice way, but be safe rather than sorry.

6. Always drive yourself to this first meeting or two. Don't allow him to pick you up because if you do, you may very well be putting yourself in a dangerous situation. It's just not worth the risk. If he is a good man, he will understand!

7. Never make assumptions about someone you are getting together with for the first time, no matter how long you have been chatting online or on the phone. Don't do it! You don't know this guy yet and the risk just is not worth it.

8. Wait until your 2nd or even 3rd date before you disclose certain information. Keep your mind open and see if you get any bad vibes about the black guy 1st.

9. Make sure you always let someone know where you are going to meet your date at, Inform them what time you are expecting to be home, even have them call and check on you during your date and you can have some code word ready to let your friend know if things are going good or bad. .

10. Don't let your heart overrule your mind. Keep your wits about you. Keep your cell phone turned on and ready to use at a moments notice should things take a turn for the worse. Safety first!

Remember, dating should be fun and exciting. You can keep it that way even while using caution and keeping yourself safe. There is no need to feel you have to be "cool" and do whatever it is that this guy wants you to do. Remember, if he is the ONE, he won't mind waiting until you are comfortable enough to let him know more about you. He'll respect you for it and more importantly, you'll respect yourself.

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