Re: Black Love / Ebony Dating & World Aids Day Today!

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I know google likes original content normally in a blog post, but this post is a mixture of original and unoriginal content because I felt that on this day so many people have said it better than us, Today It's better to cite the experts.

Holla Out To Some Magic Johnson LOVE!

Dec 1 2010 -
World AIDS Day 2010: There are definite signs of progress.

HIV/AIDS has hit blacks disproportionately hard. They account for more than half of new cases, according to Michael Weinstein, the president of AHF, and too often they are in the later stages of the disease, making the outcome grim.

But Some Good News, (qouted from csmonitor.com)
There Has Been A worldwide decline in infection rates.
According to the 2010 report from UNAIDS, the United Nations' HIV/AIDS program, the overall HIV infection rate has declined almost 20 percent in 10 years – from 3.1 million new cases in 1999 to 2.6 million in 2009. That decrease follows decades of explosive growth in the number of HIV infections.

According to the Monitor's Africa Bureau Chief Scott Baldauf, much of that decline can be attributed to funding from donor nations – such as the US President's Emergency Plan for AIDS Relief (PEPFAR), which registered $6.8 billion in funding in 2010 – and private organizations. Much of that money goes toward education about prevention and prevention tools, such as teaching people about safe sex and making condoms more available.

Black Love is a wonderful thing, but do it responsibly.

In 2010 & 2011 Responsibility Is IN!
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Safe_sex
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/435048/getting_tested_for_hivaids.html

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Magic Johnson - (Qouted from http://msn.foxsports.com)
“A lot of people can’t afford to buy their Aids drugs or leave their community to go get tested or get the proper health care,” Johnson said. “We have to educate people, especially in the black and brown community. That’s been my focus through the last 10 years, through the churches, through the schools and through the colleges as well. The numbers are too high. When you think about the new cases, more than 50 percent are African-American. We’ve got to bring those numbers down and work on the stigma as well, (plus) the it-can’t-happen-to-me (perception).”

The message Magic Johnson wants to get out on World AIDS Day is to get tested and get informed in what is an evolving battle. Johnson noted that when he announced he was HIV positive, there was one available drug, AZT, for treatment. Now there are 30.

Interested in getting involved with the Magic Johnson Foundation?
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Red Ribbons and the words "Fight AIDS" are being seen all over the world Today. So what does this have to do with you and an all black dating site like Black-Friend-Finder.com ?

Well a lot actually, Yes, we promote "Black Love" on B.F.F. The world is a lot better place with it, But Dig - Responsibility is "In".

This is particularly important to an ebony dating site, and a fellow webmaster recently brought this to my attention.

People First! Start With Yourself & Your Partner!
Your "Life" Will Thank You For It.

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Black Love is a wonderful thing, but do it responsibly.
Unplanned Children/Diseases are expensive!
So Play It Safe, & Practice Safe Sex.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Safe_sex
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/435048/getting_tested_for_hivaids.html

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How To Really Pick Up Black Girls At On Online Black Matchmaker Site

Picking Up Hot Black Girls

Hi, Black Guys and Black girls,

Thanks for the intro Mathilda.
BTW Mathilda. U Have My attention too. Black Cutie ;-)

Anyways, I think Black Friend Finder mainly Brought me on to help out the black ladies in our BFF fanclub but this week I'm Gonna start with the black males 1st. I'll be honest. I'm a black woman that gets hit on a lot. I see the good bad and the ugly.

So Here Goes... some of you black males need to step up your game. Last Week I was approached in my black friend finder profile with "Hey Ebony, Maybe we could go to the gym or sumthin sumthin cause Your the kind of Shape I'd like to get into. Know what I'm sayin Black Booty Judy. Holla Back , Phat Booty Mike"

Oh My My.. Cute.
OK I know A lot of black dudes are looking for ebony sex (no pun intended) Yes.
But Is this sort of intro Effective? With Me... NO!!!
You really all need to listen to what Mathilda says in here in the BFF Blog each week.

Otherwise You aint getting this ebony booty ... or probably any other sexy black women .

Sincere works over all other BS. In Fact I'm gonna give you a black boys a huge dating tip.
# 1 sign up for Black Friend Finder Its FREE To Signup.
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Picking up black women the right way is not rocket science.

You just need to do it in a way the black models or hot black girls accept and love.

I'm not kidding, if you do just these 2 things and follow them like a recipe you will have more black dates, black dating, black sex, or whatever it your black online dating hearts desire.

I'm gonna tell you a secret right now. & I promise to owe Mathilda 1 kiss on the his cute black cheeks for telling u this.
(Cause He might be mad for me telling you about one of his secrets to success)

He did step 2 above and it took his game to another level.
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Many of the tips he gives you here are derived step 2 above.

& If You're a hot black women and you want to give someone a nudge how to better approach you and be successful, then send them here and tell them to do the two steps above. (Make sure to give them your black friend finder profile address so they can follow up with you)

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Until Next Time,
Get In & Get Busy Dating
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Ebony Simpson (Black Online Dating Expert)
As Always, Practice Safe Sex
(Cause Having Kids Or STDS Is Expensive!)

Here's a list of the top 12 search terms people are using to find us this week.
1. black love
2. find love
3. date site
4. find black love
5. black date site
6. black mature
7. black guy
8. black meet or meet black
9. black people
10. black woman white man
11. black female
12. black on black dating

honorable mention(#13) - fat black

Hey Wazzup Yall...
Just an FYI Update of note.
We've got big changes coming up in the next month.
I have added a co writer for the www.black-friend-finder.com blog
She is co-owner of Black-Friend-Finder.com and a good friend of mine.
Ms. Ebony Simpson (yes black guys - she's single on BFF and looking - But remember I saw her first ;-)

BS'ing aside. She Knows her stuff when it comes to black online dating and black love in general.


We brought her on for 2 reasons.

#1. Shes Hot!!! & Smart!!

and

#2 We Took a look at the black-friend-finder.com search logs and saw that folks are finding us with these types of keywords (see list below)

I wanted to share with you and thought you brothers and sisters would find this real..

Can You tell which searches where done by black brothers and which were done by black sisters
(For answers see parenthesis)

blacks (Both Sexes Search for this)
young black (MoSTLY Black Males Search For this)
find love (Black Females)
black female (Black Males)
black male (Black Females)
fat black (Black Males)
black body (Black Males)
black boy (Black Females)
black ladies (Black Males)
black models (Black Males)
love dating (Black Females)
looking for love (Black Females)
meet girls (Black Males)
black single (Both)
beautiful black women (Black Males)
black male models (Black Females)
black mature (Black Males)
hot black girls (Duh... Black Males)
ethiopian girls (Black Males)
ebonysex (Black Males)
big black women (Black Males)
ghetto girls (Black Males)
hot black (Black Males)
fat black women (Yes Some Black Males Like Thick Girls Best )
black guy (Black Females)
matchmaker (Black Females)
big black girls (Black Males)
fat girls (Black Males)
blackpussy (Duh.. I dunno maybe Black Males)
black boobs (ditto)
big girls (Black Males)
big boobies (Black Males)
hot black girls (Black Males)
big women (Black Males)
date online (Black Females)
black ebony (Both Sexes Search For This Term)
thick girls (Black Males)
beautiful black women (Black Males)
jamaican girl (Black Males)
big black women (Black Males)
hot black (Black Males)
black mama (Black Males)
ghetto girls (Black Males)
big black girls (Black Males)
fat black (Black Males)
black moms (Black Males)
blackgirl (Black Males)
beautiful african women (Black Males)
hairy black girls (I'll let you guess LOL)
black women white man (White Males) (FunnyORDie.com Video anyone) LOL
pretty black girls (Black Males)
black girlfriend (Black Males)
cute black girls (Black Males)
huge girls (Black Males)
black girl white guy (Black Females)
black girls rock (Mostly Black Males)
sistas (Black Males)
big black mamas (Black Males)

So you can see its slighty slanted. More males search terms in that list, but definitely bigger volume keyword searches for the black women keywords. In other words black girls search for less keywords, but they all search for certain keywords so the keywords have bigger volume. Kind of like most black women pretty much all use the same search terms.
Interesting huh.

Anyways. Heres the Bottom Line..
After all was researched on the keywords you folks are using to find us, we realized B.F.F. needed a seperate black viewpoint.

That is, from the black ladies perspective.
So We're gonna be splitting up the dutys around here.
I'm gonna give the black guys expert tips on how to pick up the black ladies the right way.
& Ebony is gonna give the black ladies dating tips on how to pick up and flirt with the black boys they like.

& Everybody Black Meet in the Middle.. So To Speak. Get It?

Stay Tuned. Lots More Black Love & Black Passion Coming Your Way.

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Whenever guys who are not black ask me, “What’s it like to date a black girl?” I respond by joking, “I wouldn’t know. I’ve never dated one. As in, I always date black women not girls) Kidding aside, I always call Black Girls "Black Women" because they are all that and then some, at least in my book.

And for a while now, I’ve promised you guys a “How to Pick Up Hot Black Women” post or something similar. Right. I thought about it last August but, WTH, stuff happens in the days between my blog posts. So, when I got down to writing things the next evening, I got sidetracked again, and wrote about I don't remember what. Anyways I'm back on track, finally, the waiting is done: a list of Do This and DON'T Do This are below. Here we go Hang On..

5 Tips for Picking Up; Black Babes, Black Hotties, Black Women or Finding Black Love in general. Whatever Ya want to call it,
Meet Black

Here We Go:

1. Make it stupid simple. If you’ve never dated a hot black girl and you’d like to ask someone hot out, how bout something like: “Hey, Girl are you free on Friday? Maybe we could be grab coffee or drinks or something and get to know eachother better?” Yes, my brothas, it’s that simple. So simple it works probably 70% of the time. If you still need help, Stay tuned to the black friend finder blog Because we are gonna keep coming back to this theme. Over and Over till you got so many black dates lined up you dont return my calls anymore. :(
Learn How to Ask a Black Woman Out on A Date.

2. DO NOT go into overkill. Telling off endorsements like “I’ve always worshiped black women” or “Black girls have tons more flava” or "I almost made Pro NBA status" will only make you mostly seem like a jerk. Side note, Also, Never ever go out in a spontaneous freestyle rap to prove how “hip and down” you are. [OK Maybe if you're real good. But that's a BIG if.]
( 50cent could get a way wit it. But 85% of others. NO! No! LOL )

3. Be honest about yourself. When the subject comes up, Is their anything wrong with saying, “I never been on a real date with a black hottie before because... ” Most Your dates will respect you're being honest. By the way, on a side bar, as a rule don’t lie with women in general. (You don't always tell them everything either) But generally don't lie. This single one tip has really helped me with the black booty judys. No one likes to be led on. So, if you really want to DATE a hot black girl but you’d just like to have black sex, there are plenty of places and opportunities to do that. Place a Craigslist add. sign up For FREE at www.black-friend-finder.com. Look into other black communities. But, be honest about your intentions.

Believe Me, there are plenty of black girls out there that have the same intentions as you.
;-)

But they want to get to know a little about you initially.

4. Make sure to have an open head. People are very unique and mostly cool and fly creatures. Everybody comes from alternate worlds & ethnicitys, classes, educations, spirituality (or not) and locations. And, Remember, we learned different things in life. So, we each have very unique thoughts about how things work. If You are dating someone who has a background that's unlike your own, make sure to study up against ideas that maybe will be different to your own ideas. One persons “right” attitude is not always the best way to think. Try seeing things from "her view" sometimes. Honestly, Women Love This. Plus, besides you might learn something new.
FYI - This is why Opposites attract!!!

5. Treat your dates like a DATE. Huh, Oh Ya? Generally, I think most people want to be cherished, loved, cared for, desired, etc. for who they are. Black Women want you to respect them, and be interested in them as a person too.

So spend some quality time getting to know her. Pretend like it’s a, you know, DATE.

Then she most likely will give something up in return... which all us guys like, and quite honestly most girls love too.. (they just don't admit it)
;-)

Remember to Practice Safe Sex and Get In & Get Busy Dating!
Mathilda Howard
Owner/Ceo
www.black-friend-finder.com

Top 10 Best Black / Ebony Dating Tips - Safe Online Dating for Black Women

Safe Online Dating for Black Women (& women in General Too!)

You are just about to meet this black stud you have been chatting with online and you are SO excited! Don't let your excitement make you forget that the MOST important thing you can do is think safe!

1. Set arrangements to meet up in a public place for your 1st date. Never give out your home address.(OK Maybe when you're married). Kidding aside, just because a hot black guy seems sweet while chatting online, does not mean you should start trusting him enough to give out your home address. That is not safe! Think First..

2. For safety's sake, meet where there will be other people around. You may also want to consider going out with a group of people, or a double date.

3. Never give your home phone # out. It's alright to give a cell phone number, but your home phone can easily be used online with a Reverse Phone Number search to find out your address. .

4. Avoid alcohol on the 1st date. We all know that when we've had a few drinks, we get a little "looser" than we really want to and that can be a Big mistake. If this is Mr. Right, you may well have ruined it by getting drunk and going further with a stranger than you know you should. If this is Mr. Wrong, You have lost good judgement. Thats unsafe.

5. LISTEN TO YOUR GUT Instinct! If something about this man makes you uneasy, nervous, or you just feel something is not right, then leave. Do this in a nice way, but be safe rather than sorry.

6. Always drive yourself to this first meeting or two. Don't allow him to pick you up because if you do, you may very well be putting yourself in a dangerous situation. It's just not worth the risk. If he is a good man, he will understand!

7. Never make assumptions about someone you are getting together with for the first time, no matter how long you have been chatting online or on the phone. Don't do it! You don't know this guy yet and the risk just is not worth it.

8. Wait until your 2nd or even 3rd date before you disclose certain information. Keep your mind open and see if you get any bad vibes about the black guy 1st.

9. Make sure you always let someone know where you are going to meet your date at, Inform them what time you are expecting to be home, even have them call and check on you during your date and you can have some code word ready to let your friend know if things are going good or bad. .

10. Don't let your heart overrule your mind. Keep your wits about you. Keep your cell phone turned on and ready to use at a moments notice should things take a turn for the worse. Safety first!

Remember, dating should be fun and exciting. You can keep it that way even while using caution and keeping yourself safe. There is no need to feel you have to be "cool" and do whatever it is that this guy wants you to do. Remember, if he is the ONE, he won't mind waiting until you are comfortable enough to let him know more about you. He'll respect you for it and more importantly, you'll respect yourself.

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7 Top Things That Black Women Want in Their Black Men during the initial Black Dating Phases.

There is a saying that "you wont get a 2nd chance to make a great 1st impression." Hence, it is crucial to be prepared to make a good impression on each black date you go on. Here are 7 tips for black men on black dating success and making a "Big Impression".

1. Bath or Shower Regularly
One of the worst things you can do when going out on a date (especially if it is your 1st date) is to turn up unshaven, looking dirty and smelling. Black Women are genearlly the cleaner of the sexes and will partly judge you on how clean you are. Remember Cleanliness is next to sexyness. Bad breath and body odor are an instant turn off and black girls will assume that this is how you are most of the time even if you are just having a bad day. She won’t be able to see beyond your appearance.

2. Get There on Time
Don’t turn up late. Turning up late sends out bad impressions. She may think she's been stood up, but after arriving late her opinion will change. Is he unreliable? Is he caring enough about her to be on time. Five minutes early is even better. Any earlier, and you might catch her adjusting her makeup or still getting ready. Five minutes early is the earliest you should arrive.

3. Give black women a Thoughtful Gift
A woman feels great when the man she is with gives her a nice gift. Know a few things about your perfect black woman before a first date. Maybe that came from phone conversations, emails, etc. Take what you know and buy her an appropriate date gift. For example, let's say that the woman really likes dancing. Get her a dance video and a rose. For an all purpose generic thoughtful gift, buy a chocolate rose. That's always nice without being overboard.

4. Make Sure To Compliment Your Ebony Girl.
The first thing you might say to her is.. You look Great Girl! Do this before you even ask how she is. Keep up the comments throughout your date, but do not go over board (3 for the night should be more than enough). A black woman loves to be complimented, to feel pretty and to think that you are attracted to her. More sincere = the bigger impact it will have.

5. Listen to Her and Ask relevant Questions
Nobody wants to spend the whole night listening to someone talk about themselves. Get to know each other. Ask her questions, but more crucial, listen to what she has to say. A black woman is attracted to a black man who is genuinely interested in hearing what she has to say. Spend a lot more time asking her questions and letting her talk rather than talking only of yourself. This is crucial in the black online dating or black singles game.

6. About The Goodnight Kiss
Some black single women may prefer not to kiss after an initial date, while other black girls may be pissed if the black guy doesn't even try. There is no easy simple answer to this question. Body language and the chemistry during the night is crucial in the decision you make. If it feels on, then by all means make the move. If it doesn't feel right then a friendly hug may be more appropriate.

7. And Always Practice Safe Sex. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Safe_sex Its simple, Plus, You and Your Partners Life Will Thank You For It! In 2010 Responsibility Is IN!

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